Sunday, 17 January 2016

WHEN THE PENIS AND THE VAGINA LOCK HORNS AND THE UNEXPECTED HAPPENS

WHEN THE PENIS AND THE VAGINA LOCK HORNS AND THE UNEXPECTED HAPPENS


WHEN THE PENIS AND THE VAGINA LOCK HORNS AND THE UNEXPECTED HAPPENS

''Darling please don't be scared okay? You will not get pregnant because I will withdraw before you know it and I will not ejaculate inside you or into the vagina. I promise!''
''Do not worry sweet, I am in my safe period so there is no need to worry about pregnancy''  
These are some of the statements that people make going into unprotected sexual intercourse with the hope of using the natural methods of family planning. This methods can indeed prevent pregnancy hence they are family planning methods or contraceptives. However, the failure rate is high because of certain factors. Let's pick a stroll into the penis and the vagina....
1. Withdrawal method
This method of contraception is practiced by males. Penetration is made but just when ejaculation is about to be attained, the penis is pulled out of the vagina or withdrawn. Another name for it is coitus interruptus.
The problem with this method is that it requires a great deal of discipline and self control. Some people make all the promises in the world to remove the penis or withdraw but when they have to do so, they can't help themselves but to ejaculate into the vagina. Then you hear statements like ''baby I'm sorry, I wanted to but my feelings failed me''.
Another angle of this method is the fact that during foreplay or romance, there is a fluid that comes before the semen. It is called the pre ejaculatory fluid or the pre cum. Even before penetration but in the process of foreplay, if you put your finger at the tip of the penis, you will touch this fluid. Though it is not suppose to have sperms in it, sometimes it does and can lead to pregnancy because even before you withdraw they may have been deposited into the vagina already.
Finally, using this method, even if you are successful in the first round, the situation becomes more riskier. This is because after the first ejaculation, there will be remnants or residues of sperms inside the urethra so as the next pre-cum arrives, it pushes these sperms into the vagina and can lead to pregnancy.
2. Calendar method or Safe Period
This is also a method of contraception but practiced by females. This is done by studying the menstrual cycle and determining which days are safe to have sex and which days are not safe.
The failure rate for this method is also high.
The reason is that, it is rare to find a female whose menstrual cycle does not or have not changed before. When the change occurs, it alters the calculation of the safe and unsafe period.
Additionally, there are so many external factors that can change a lady's menstrual cycle and they are: stress, over excitement, change of environment, sickness, certain diet and medications. When this happens, one may have sex on an unsafe day thinking it was safe and that can lead to pregnancy. Unfortunately, when the cycle changes it wouldn't write you a permission letter for your approval.
NB: There are a lot of people today who are shy or afraid to walk into a shop to buy condoms to protect themselves. Some claim they want to have a real feel of the sexual intercourse.
Aside the fact that these two methods can lead to pregnancy, it must be well noted that they do NOT protect against HIV and other Sexually Transmitted Infections.
If you are not ready for the consequences then ABSTAIN from sexual intercourse till you are ready. Those who are sexually active must use CONDOM at all times whenever having sex.
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